The heart of any wedding or commitment ceremony, the vows are your personal promises to each other. This is where you get to spell out what your life-long commitment to your partner means to you, and the kinds of values, qualities and behaviours you aspire to maintain in your marriage.
There are many traditional and non-traditional wedding vow words to choose from – posted all over the internet. My favourite reference is www.myweddingvows.com. Or you might want to sit down and write some words from your own heart.
Because the wedding vows are such a personal matter, I ask all my couples to find or write their own vows as their homework.